Since the new millennium the dating world has gotten much more challenging for single men. Women are pickier than they've ever been before. With the Internet it has gotten easier for people to cheat and hide their tracks.
It's a jungle out there. Yet time and time again men continue to make the same mistakes. These 7 quick and easy dating tips for men will make your dating life a lot less frustrating. 1.
Master The Art Of Qualifying - When most men meet a woman they place too much emphasis on her beauty. The don't make the genuine effort of trying to build rapport. This usually leads to horrible pick up lines and lame routines. Anytime you approach and talk to a woman, if you can communicate to her indirectly that you are the one qualifying her, then it makes you more attractive. Don't waste your time on women that don't fit your criteria. No matter how beautiful they are.
2. Don't Engage In A One-Way Conversation - Another one of my dating tips for men that you can take to the bank is when you talk to a woman or a group of women is to not engage in a one way conversation. Most men think they have to entertain women in order to build attraction, but that is a myth.
A healthy and balanced woman wants an engaging interaction. If you talk to a woman and she is not holding her end of the conversation, such as giving you one word answers, it's probably time to move on. 3.
Ask With Confidence - When you're ready to ask a woman for her phone number, you should make sure that you ask with confidence. If you look her in the eye and ask with a tone of EXPECTATION in your voice, then she'll have no choice but to give you her contact information. Anytime you ask for something, ask with confidence. 4. It's Not Personal - A major reason why men do not approach women is because they fear rejection.
They think if she says "no" or "I'm not interested" that it is a reflection on them and who they are. Nothing could be further from the truth. "It's seldom ever personal. Most men don't realize that roughly out of every 10 women they meet, only 2 of them are actually at that point in their life where they are ready to meet someone new," says dating coach Rod Cortez. "Women have their own lives. They might be busy with their career, schooling, or they might be involved with someone else.
For whatever ever reason they are not ready to meet someone new. Besides, if even she is not interested why would anyone want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with them?" 5. Master The Art Of Leading - Women expect men to lead. If you habitually ask women "well, what do you want to do?" you'll soon find yourself single again. A great way to lead is to give a woman 2 or 3 alternatives before you make plans and if she says "you pick one", then don't hesitate, just pick it. You should lead when dating and you should lead in the bedroom.
You must have sensory acuity around this and that only comes with practice. 6. Mastering Conversation Skills - A lot of men say "I don't know what to say". Since social skills are skills that any man can learn you need to hone them. When I hear a man say that, I know that he has not practiced enough.
The quick solution is to begin talking to everyone you meet. You should talk to your professor after class. Talk to the person sitting next to you at the bar. You should engage in conversations with the waiter, the hostess, the cashier, the valet, and everyone you come in contact with. This includes men and women. This is one of my many dating tips that have proven themselves in the field over and over again.
7. Never Seek Her Approval - In the context of meeting and dating women as a single man, you should never seek a woman's approval because it should come naturally. This means you shouldn't buy a stranger a drink. You should never try and impress her with your job, your car, or how much money you spend. I think Mindy, a 23 year old account executive said it best, "I want a nice guy with an edge.".
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